Be patient, they say. On the other hand, they say that life goes by for a moment. When listening to those words most often spoken by people whose number of years should indicate the wisdom gained during their homeland service, the conclusion is to be patient as you watch your time pass. And then the panic starts. The impression is that this letter "S" is just a prefix in the word suffering, and that is why the boundary between patience and suffering is so foggy. Today, patience is actually the suffering of everything that begins with the letter "S". The more patience we have - the list of suffering becomes longer. Through my personal living experience, I begin to see a little more humane definition of patience. Patience is giving an opportunity for time to work for us. Since we live in a world where they tell us that if you do not do everything for your dreams - you will achieve nothing, leaving time to do things is too risky. Almost like a suicide. That's why the mastery of time is controlled by a few.
When, instead of having the fear of transience, you choose to reflect on the power of eternity, when you know that in your life you have more than "5 minutes of fame" to show your worth, and when you know that greatest value is the realization that this whole life is your "five minutes" in eternity - then you know that there are no lost opportunities in time, but only the time under whose pressure we do not see the opportunity. When we decide to play a game called Life we play according to our rules, patience then ceases to be frustrating sitting on the bench, but it becomes time for a break during time-outs. When we realize that time does not suffer, but that it can work for us, it can only then go on in our life. Then the panic stops. We will marry our true love because we love them, not because it's time for us to marry. We will be wonderful parents when we give birth to children because we want them, not because it's time to have them. We will be the most beautiful when we wear clothes that are fitting in with our style, and not in accordance with the years we have. Only when we stop fighting with time, we can begin to enjoy the achievement of what we want. Time does not dictate things we want to do, but society. Time allows us things. We do not fight the battle with time, but with human understanding of the time. Do not worry. You're not late now. You will not get anywhere before time. Because this universe does not know for an hour or for a calendar, but only for the natural rhythm of your being.
