Greetings, I agree with you, many times forgiving means not being the same with that person who caused you harm, we are simply taking a step to heal our wounds and take a step towards our healing, many fail to understand this, when we forgive we are the ones who benefit the most because we free ourselves from negative feelings that destroy our lives over time. I have always thought that the best remedy for soul is to let go of what disturbs us.
I say goodbye wishing you success