Yes, totally agree.

What breaks my heart is when a parent chooses to have a child in order to feel love that they feel they are missing in their life. In some cases the child teaches the parent how to heal and grow, and in other cases the child learns quickly they will have to be the real adult for the family because mom or dad is stuck in a spiral.

My sister put a lot of love and heart into wanting to be a mother. Eventually adoption seemed like the best option for her. She has a lot of love for her son, and would never give up on him.

It baffles me what religion teaches against adoption. Which religion do you think it is?

Some religions still view cleanliness laws relating to not mixing bloodlines with entire nationalities as being forever cursed with uncleanliness. To outsiders, it may be called racist or xenophobic. All based on a teaching from God's Word that pure blood is more righteous and allows godly immortality in heaven. "Sucks to be you", is what they have to tell everyone born outside their incestuous religion.

One time I was blindsided when my friend invited me to her home for a meal, and I wasn't allowed to touch any utensils or plates, because even after washing my hands I would have made those items unclean and unusable for her family. I did not mind the paper plates, but could have done without the toxic friendship.

Love must be absolute. It must be given freely. To give or receive love does miracles. Those who are undeserving can benefit from it the most.