Halelujah! You as a fellow romanian can definetely understand the frustrations and possible mental health issues arising from living in such a system. No matter how much I try I just can't find a way to fit in here, I felt so much more at home in Denmark than I feel now in here. I guess it depends on people and how they imagine a better life for a future family. I will ponder and make the decision with the idea that I make a better choice than previous generations who had little options in comparison to us