Thank you for your empathy! Well now I see their divorce as the best thing. It is healthier for a child to not live with 2 parents married for 20+ years who hate each other and choose to remain married. Although divorce is traumatizing , studies have shown that the children of the parents who sit in a toxic marriage are much worse mentally and emotionally. As adults they tend to avoid love at all cost because they think all relationships are like what they see. Sad. Both situations are sad.So...yup....we have to heal.
I am happy I cancelled the wedding. For me infidelity, under any form, is deeply hurtful and I would never consider building a life with someone who will not want to be faithful to me. If someone loves you they would not cheat on you.

Yes we are in a better world today in comparison with 100 years ago but in Romania some women still get abused in relationships and settle with the wrong guy who sees them just as a source for pleasure and child bearing.

Have a great day🤗