Oh I can relate. My older sister has a puffy chest lol. And after giving birth to two babies....that was not so pretty lol. And I did heard her complain. So what men think is oh so sexy....for those women it is quite a serious problem. I envy no more haha I am happy with my boobs just as they are. Self acceptance is huge because I believe that this desire to have big boobs has been served to young girls through advertisements.
Nowadays I feel it has become less important.