I am so sorry for your loss, I am deeply touched by this story....emotional abuse is serious, it is such a shame that she hold it so much inside. The ex-es will pay in front of God, no harm is left unpunished, it is cruel to emotionally torture another human being. I send you and your family all of my best wishes and I wish you healing and strenght. Pray to God for spiritual guidance in these difficult times, it will help.