Fair or unfair is always connected with expectations. And expectations are rooted in what people think they deserve. Can this inner vision be far away from the truth? Of course. Not many individuals will see the fault in what they do. Blaming the system is always easy. Blaming others is just what is convenient.
Changing yourself will always lead to a change in the environment, but many do, as you underlined, the reverse.
I like stories too. I like the ones that are untold and yet seen. There is also a whole story behind what is not said. And that says usually much more. I think that we are all like books. It takes time to read through the pages and turn them around. The narrative will always change in the eyes of the reader. In the end, people believe that the only story that matters is the one that they are telling to themselves. It is not. Self deception is not a long road, many will have to turn around eventually and look for the real story down the road.
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