How years pass by... We all reflect on this on our bday. We can't choose how to be until we become self aware. This comes with aging and with experience. I also wish to have been better in the past. But everything that has happened has shaped you into what you are today. A person with many qualities, some of them undisclosed yet. The right eyes see the right person.
The dark side/the shadow. It takes years to master it. We all have that. I guess that controlling and accepting our dark side only makes us better. Humans are so complex, I sometimes wonder how will I be 20 years from now.
Here is a virtual cake for your bday G. Fat free🎂😂