Yup. I know it must sound odd and overly logical. But I do think that there is more than love butterflies when it comes to settling down. Compatibility is also a science. Of course there are couples who instantly clicked and lived happily ever after. Rare. I like to look at the logical approach of love. Because it takes more to have a strong connected relationship for years. As a happily married man you could totally add valuable information to what I just wrote G.