I have been with my girl 7 years now. When I was dating on apps I found most of the females were shallow or looking for a fling. IDK what your dating intentions are, (long term, casual, fling, hookup) but hive should start a dating app so like minded people can communicate on a deeper level. People that have similar interest's generally have the best connections. I agree with you, you never know what your gonna find under ANY circumstance. If you put yourself in the best position to succeed, the rest follows.