Decision is one thing that can shape a person life to a higher standard and can equally destroy it,if one doesn't take time in making
decisions. Everyday of our life we make decision from the office to the house.Everyday we wake up to see a new day the first thing that we do even without thinking twice is making decision.
Decisions like are we going to work today or not for office works, or if we feel like opening our shops for business owners. Then when if we conquer that decision, next thing in is what we are going to wear, eat and the transportation we are going to take.
Life as a whole is a decision on it own, God created us out of love but most of us decides if we want to live or not. Most people take a rash decision to end there life, thereby committing suicide.
At least since I can talk as a child I have started making decisions for myself although not all of it did my seniors and parents agreed with but I made the decision. Most of my decision have favoured me, while some I have deep regrets that if I can turn back the hand of clock. I will do it sharply without wasting time.
One major decision I have taken in my life apart from business, is who I will spend the rest of my life with, you see this thing called arranged marriage had favoured some people but not me. I was introduced to someone for marriage, everybody says his nice, what a great guy. For whatever reason, I wasn't seeing what everybody was seeing.
I called my mom and told her that this guy is not okay, something fishy is going on in his life and I don't feel okay about him. My entire household was angry, some where saying that am judging him too early. They pressure to accept him was just too much for me to handle.
I wholeheartedly went to God in prayer, after my prayer I became more convinced that the guy is not my husband, I went and confronted him, I told him that I know everything about him and he better start talking before I will go and tell my parents everything I find out about him.
Honestly, I didn't find anything but just that strong instinct that something is not right,then, he told me he has four children from one woman and he has nothing doing aside from acting as a pastor and scamming people. I wasn't expecting that, that was the least confession I was expecting.
I went home and told my entire family , long story short, that was the best decision of my life rejecting that guys proposal. He later stole clothe, scamming another lady that the brought for him.
I always take time before making any decisions and I always prepare myself for any out come whether good or bad. I always have another plan waiting to hatch. I learn to take responsibility for every of my decision
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