People create and maintain illusions. Formed illusions create more and more illusions. This happens at all levels of our lives.
In order to explain this, first I will bring someone else's (common) idea, as most fully describing what I want to tell you, and once again proving that everything about what you think has already been invented by someone, created, understood , achieved - whatever :)
"Man, in addition to the physical shell, is a set of ideas about himself and the world, manifested in thinking and behavior. It can not be said that the person develops these ideas independently - he is brought up from birth by his environment. Basically, people are not inclined to question their views, which coincide with the generally accepted. Such conformism helped to survive in full dangers of the ancient world, tk. contributed to the unity and unanimity of the group. Hence, for example, the roots of xenophobia and the desire to identify with a particular group (national, gender, political, religious, etc.) grow. "
And now again my (common) thought:
For example, when a lefty is taught to do some basic things with his right hand, he will not cease to be left-handed, but will get the illusion that you need to write, eat and clean your teeth with your right hand. All that he was not taught to do with his right hand, he will do the left. This is his true nature.
People without themselves realizing that they make themselves and others like some certain standard of people forget about their true nature, deprive themselves of individuality and freedom.
The problem is that this is manifested not only in the training of left-handers, which, of course, is not so terrible, but in all aspects of our life. This is also imposed life values. This and imposed standards of beauty. This is an imposed life path. You can enumerate endlessly.
People support illusions as a result of striving for unity. Unity with the group is carried out through conformism by adopting group rules. We consider ourselves to be gender, nationality, religion, because these are the "foundations of the fundamentals and so it is necessary", we do not even think about it. When we consider ourselves to be a certain gender, we begin to rank ourselves in all the illusions that accompany this gender, which in turn give rise to new illusions.
For example, considering a bonus to a certain gender (illusion), we get the illusion that only relations with the opposite sex are normal. As a result, a new illusion is born: separation into gay (abnormal) / non-gay (normal). In turn, this illusion gives rise to a new illusion of the need for conflict. Now see this chain? There is a banal example: a friend learned that I go to a solarium, was surprised and said that men (attribution to gender) do not go to the solarium. Recognizing yourself as a man of gender lays a mark on all areas of our lives, including conflicts, murders and wars.
We are self-learning programs. It is necessary to realize this.
Gender differences are also part of the program programmed from the very childhood. We are from childhood explain who the boy is, and who is the girl. Learn how to behave with boys. Learn how to behave with girls. Separately. Feel this separation. What for is it? To the future there were various senseless "illusions-superstructures", for example, in the form of the same training on seduction, which cause only new problems in society?
Cease to identify with gender, nationality, religion, and many illusions will fall.
As it was said above, the totality of ideas about oneself and the world is manifested in thinking and behavior. A person who has realized himself as a self-learning program, being able to change himself and his perception of the world, becomes much more effective than the majority.
I want all people to realize this.
If you do not care - tell this to anyone you can only!
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