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You don't see the world as it is, but also you choose to see it. And that's probably why so many people, conversionally successful, are struggling with their relationship.
In business, you are rather financing problems and fixing them, but with your family and friends, the same entire bit, you only want everything.
They don't need your judgments, let alone your fixing. They need your connection, your emotional availability, the availability, the communication, your sense of care and attention.