As far as the "label" discussion goes, Wubby's actually talked about this before in another video where parents were raising their kids as gender-neutral "theybies".

>This kid has heard his whole life that girls wear skirts and girls like pink, so he loves skirts, and he loves pink, so he goes "Fuck, I'm a girl!" Instead here's what the parents should say: "No, my dude, you just like skirts and you like pink. More power to you, brother, enjoy! Wear some skirts, my guy, hell yeah!" Instead they go "No you are a girl, you're right, you ARE a girl, God made a mistake!"

He also makes the same point that adults should be able to do whatever they want with their own lives.