Social etiquette—too thin, too fat, too tall, too short, skin color—as if that were what really matters. People are always criticizing, and that criticism can affect us; everything will be dictated by how good we feel about ourselves. I went through what you express here, and at first, I let myself be intimidated, allowing outside comments to affect me, until my glass overflowed, and I'll share what's next in my post. Blessings.