In pursuit of Xu Zhimo Lin Whei-yin, shaston, but also with his view of Zhang Youyi.
在沙士顿时，徐志摩追求林徽因，但还与来看他的张幼仪同房。
Zhang Youyi in her memoir "feet" (Zhang Youyi: a suit and his niece, compiled) is mentioned, when she said she was pregnant with Xu Zhimo exciting news, Xu Zhimo immediately said, destroyed the child.
张幼仪在她的回忆录《小脚与西服》（张幼仪口诉，其侄女整理编写）中提到，当她激动的跟徐志摩说自己怀孕的消息时，徐志摩立刻便说：把孩子打掉。
Zhang Youyi said: "I heard that some people died because of abortion."
张幼仪说：“我听说有人因为打胎死掉了。”
Xu Zhimo replied coldly, "what is not dangerous, and someone else is dead because of a train accident, do you see people don't take a train?" When you say it, you don't have to be patient.
徐志摩冷冰冰地答道：“什么不危险，还有人因为火车事故死掉呢，难道你看到人家不坐火车了吗？”说完就没耐心地别过脸去。
Zhang Youyi chose to divorce her husband in order to avoid being said to be "ruthless". After the divorce, she began to grow. She took her child to study in Europe and returned to Germany after he returned home. He later taught in the University of Commerce, and then worked as a vice president of Shanghai women's commercial bank.
张幼仪为避免别人说丈夫“无情”，怀着身孕选择离婚。离婚后的她开始得以成长，她带着孩子欧洲留学，回国后在东吴大学教过德语，后来投身商界，曾做过上海女子商业银行副总裁等职。
After the death of Xu Zhimo, she attended Xu Zhimo parents died, raising two sons to adults, Xu Zhimo's widow, Lu Xiaoman send monthly expenses.
在徐志摩死后，她伺候徐志摩双亲终老，抚养两个儿子成人，每月给徐志摩遗孀陆小曼寄生活费。