Here are eight things that most often make a relationship easily collapse and fall:

1. Infidelity

When deciding to commit to a relationship, everyone would expect their partner to remain loyal and honest. When the commitment is tarnished, it is very difficult to restore trust and end more in the destruction of the relationship.

Maybe there are some couples who want to try to improve relationships after he knows his girlfriend is having an affair. But most cannot cure heartache and choose the word 'break up'.

2. Bored

Many couples mistakenly interpret, which ones are true love, which are only a momentary desire. Many relationships are broken in the middle of the road due to boredom or loss of interest in one or two parties who are in a relationship. Asmara who initially felt so burning, in a certain period could be stiff, awkward and cold because of the loss of chemistry. Eventually there was boredom and the desire to immediately end the relationship, rather than having one of the parties increasingly hurt.

3. Parent's blessing

Quite a number of couples are forced to end their relationship because of parental permission. Even though relationships have been going on for years and when blessings are not obtained, inevitably break up into choices.

This parental permission is indeed important in any matter, especially love. Many people are worried that if they continue to continue the relationship without blessing, they are considered to be filial children.

4. Mismatch

Many couples end relationships because they feel too much incompatibility. Maybe initially they can accept each other's differences in everything, in the hope that the relationship will be more attractive and challenged. But when the relationship has begun towards a more serious level, often the difference becomes a point of conflict and a stumbling block.

5. Lack of Commitment

There are people who even though they already have a partner, but when meeting interesting new people, they will call themselves 'single'. If this is known by their partner, then their relationship is on the edge. This serious lack of commitment is the cause of the breakdown of relationships.

Another commitment problem that makes a relationship crack is that one of the partners does not want an increase in status to be more serious. Usually they do not want or are not ready to deal with a relationship that is bound to a marriage.

6. Vision Differences

This may be the cause of the most painful and frustrating breakup. Why? Because romance often ends not because both of them don't love each other, but the way of life they choose is very different. For example, the woman wants to get married and have children, while the man still wants to have fun or continue education. Another example, the woman still wants to pursue a career higher, while her lover wants to live a household.

7. Separate Distance & Time

Too long in distance and time apart (without intense communication) can diminish the love that each partner has. The difference in distance and time (because of work, education, etc.) can make a person - both from the women and men - change. As a result of never communicating, when both meet face to face, there will be a feeling like dealing with strangers.

8. Remember the former lover

There are quite a number of people who have a new lover so quickly when they have just broken up. Usually this hasty decision can cause a new love relationship to run aground.

The shadow of a former lover can make you compare it with a new girlfriend. You can also still try to find out and contact the former, so that you don't really care about him. These attitudes can make you break your heart again.