It's also worth noting the difference in readings between 'girl' and 'woman'. 'Girl' is more sexualized than 'woman'; I would think a break up or even divorce more likely if it was a woman in the bar.

I live 25 miles from the ocean. We haven't had a 'big one' in this area for over 500 years, so we're either about due, or it's something I don't need to worry about in my lifetime. I try not to think about it, but there are tsunami warning signs everywhere.