2/🧵People will always say, 'Forgive whoever wronged you.' It’s one thing to forgive; it’s another thing to forget the person. For you to forgive someone, you must be able to tell yourself that you have to let go of the grudges you have been holding. Of course one can exist without the other. I can forgive you, but I didn’t forget. I still hold up the memories. I forgive you because I need peace of mind, and I remember because I don’t want to make the same mistake in other ways. I am being careful and wise. It is okay if you don’t forget that why you are human is that it is very hard to erase the memory of someone who hurt you.