Thankyou but unfortunately we are all going to go through it and I don't think it will ever get any easier, maybe the shock will have settled but then the next person goes and even though you're expecting it, it's still a huge shock...and another huge loss..but it does change you- more so if you looked after them before they went..like I did...

Anyway, that's why I wish more people would realise that once their loved ones are gone, they're gone and that's it, there's no more chances, so build those quality relationships now while you can.

And I'm so happy that you guys are.

I hope that your children grow up and teach their peers the importance of being in the 'now' and thinking about the future of their relationships too.

Anyway, blessings to you all.

XXX