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A lot of us have been chasing an illusion for a long, a selfish desire driven by what we think is our destiny, our career, which is nothing but simply a mirage, most time we focused on things that we want so much, not necessary checking and do proper research if what we want is truly what we desired, at a point in time we channel all our energy in getting what we want after we accomplished or achieved that, we find out that, they are no true fulfilment in that, which we spent our whole life chasing, in life before chasing something try to do a proper assessment if that which you want is truly what you desired the most, that at the end, it will bring true fulfilment to you.
want and desire
What we want and what we desired are two similar things but, the different is the degree to which you can go to achieved that, what we want is something that is driven from the stand point of human reach, what we see people have, and we also want to have that too, it can be a fancy car, a luxurious apartment, and millions and billions of money in out the banks account, what we want often time is material in nature, things that can make our existence known here on earth, don’t get me wrong, it is very good to have all that, but you can have all that and even more if only you assess yourself before you pursues, I myself am looking for money a lot of it, because I need it to pay bills, settle family and more, but you can only achieved that if you pursued desired not just want, but what we desired most goes beyond fancy car, luxurious house, gold and diamond jewelleries, desired is not just wanting something, but to the extend to which you want that, you can want something, but the million dollar question is to what degree? to what extent do you want that, you can want something and chase it, but with a little turbulence and obstacle you may forsake that, but when you desired something to the degree you can’t do without, trust me no obstacle and turbulence can stop you, you will continue until the desired result is achieved, what we desired most time can be peace of mind, relationship with that person, good health, love and be loved, time with our children and loved ones, so in our quest of chasing what we want we should do a proper assessment and make sure that we are not just chasing what we want, but what we desired the most. Just like Howard stark, tony stark(iron man) dad says and I quote” no amount of money can buy a second of time” so what we need to chase is what we desired the most, family, time, peace and health, so everything without this attribute is a waste of pursued. Let us not lied to ourselves with the millions and billions in our account, man’s greatest desire is to love and be loved, appreciated and accepted, what am saying is that why do we chase after want when we can accomplish the both if only we do a proper assessment before our pursued.
