Its easy to understand why people are NICE to each other... it gives you (most people anyways) a warm fuzzy feeling to know they're making someone feel good. We are social beings as humans and need positive reinforcement and crave to be "liked" and accepted.
But why is it that some people feel the need and urge to be mean to others for no reason at all?
In my opinion and from what ive seen, people who are mean even to others whom are undeserving of it, have some sort of self doubt or unresolved hurt. By taking it out on others and belittling them or making them feel hurt and small, it boosts them up. They don't feel as bad about whatever demons theyre carrying around and feel a sense of power.
I don't understand this... I mean, I get it, I get why these angry people do it.
BUT WHYYY!?!?
If these people whom are hurt and dealing with their own pain and regrets in life would just be NICE to the people who treat them nice or even just random people; I think their happiness would begin to sprout from this.
I believe that if they would just open their hearts and eyes to see that life IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT, that they would be more prone to put in POSITIVE efforts vs negative.
We can ALL be a little "mean" at times, sure, we are human. And although (most of us) do our very best to avoid hurting others, there are some who just have a emotional brick wall up around them and anytime someone gets in closer they snap,
I've sat back and watched people I love slip into depression and go from happy go lucky to a very bitter angry person.
Just simply being nice or doing something nice could effect heir entire day for the better. You just never know who you're talking to may have had the worst day ever and your simple act of kindness she was
Next time someone says something mean and makes you feel bad or even cry, Stop, and remember, THEYRE the ones miserable in life who feel the need to be nasty to other people; pick your head back up, hold it high and say, I'm happier with my life than to let your hateful words affect me in any way. Also, throw in a nice compliment to them, and walk away.!
