I try to have this conversation with people half my age. I didn't party in my 20s and I don't drink. When the people I went to highschool was going out and getting smashed every weekend, I was on my grind. Caught some crap for it too. Now in our 40's they are all stuck in the same dead end jobs they had 20 years ago. Meanwhile I am making at least 5x what they are and can do all the things they cannot.