Every  friendship should  have  a purpose  and  every relationship  should have  a  focus. 

The focus  of  every relationship should be marriage. You have  no  business being  in  a relationship  with someone  if  you know  you  are  not going  to  marry  the  person. You need  to  have  the right  focus  why  you  want  to  be  in  a  relationship  with someone, and  the focus  should  be because  you  want to  marry  the person.

It  is  so  sad  that  a lot  of  people  are  in a  relationship  for wrong  reasons, some  are  in  a relationship because  they  feel lonely and  they need  someone  to be with,  others  are in  a  relationship  for sex,  some  also  are in  a  relationship  for fun,  many  too  are  in  a  relationship because  all  their friends  are  in  a relationship  and they  feel  left  out, some  people  too are  in  a  relationship because  someone  is  putting  pressure on  them  so  they decide  to  be  in  a relationship.  But  all  these  are  the  wrong reasons  to  be  in  a relationship. 

It   amazes  me sometimes  to  see people  in  a relationship  with  a married  man  or woman,  but  the question  is,  what business  do  you have  dating somebody's husband  or  wife ?  This  is  not  the life  of  a  responsible, matured  person. Have  the  right focus  for  being  in a  relationship. Don't  start something  with the  intention  of not   finishing, if you  know  you  are not  going  to continue  and  finish  then  don't start  it  at  all.

Be  a  responsible person,  may  be  you are reading this article,  and  you know    you  are  in  a  wrong relationship, is time  to  quit  and  come  of  such unhealthy relationship  which does  not  have  a future.  I  mostly  tell  ladies,  when  a guy  or  a  man come  into  your  life, there  are  two things  you  should find  out  from  him. Whether he  has  a plan  for  your  life or  he  want  to  play  with  your  life. This  man  or guy  who  claim  to be  in  love  with  you,  does  he  want to  make  an honourable  woman out  of  you,  to  be his  wife  and  the mother  of  his children ?

Are  you  in  a relationship  with the  right  person ? Is  your relationship  headed  for marriage  or  you  just want to have fun ? If  you  are  in  a  relationship  with someone,  is  time for  both  of  you  to  define  that relationship. Ask yourself, why  are you  in  that relationship ? is  it for  the  right  reason, if not, is time  to  quit.