Avoid pretentious holiness, social life gives acceptability. Poor social life can affect everything you do including your true love. When you can not express yourself before opposite sex, how would you cope with your husband. Social life helps people find true love, it helps keep a good relationship. If you want to marry, marry your best friend because the journey is too far, there are hurdles on the way that will only be overcomed by friendship. Learn how to smile and forgive.