The problems you encounter are not allowed so as to destroy you, but are rather to make you stronger and to gravitate you towards your predestined greatness.
You are expected to come out strong in those situations.
This is to ensure that you arrive with a sound story to tell, and a strong testimony to share amongst others, which is capable of changing their lives as well.
The problem is to challenge you to make extra effort so as to counter the negative situation.
Remember this;
"The negatives are not to neglect you, but to nurture and nourish you to becoming a notable personality in reality!"