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Every day and night we aspire to do things constantly because we want them to come to perfection but mind you, your aspirations might be a fantasy or an illusion when your expectations don't meet your actions.
We all want to be like notorious celebrities, some aspire to be an actress, is that your true aspiration in life?
- Have you wondered why things don't match up with your struggles?
- Have you thought about it?
- Have you asked yourself what's holding me back?
It's mostly because you haven't identified what your aspiration is, once you map out it out, take a closer look around that thought, now do the brainstorming calculation around it, add the plus and minus sign, divide if you have to once you get that answer..... work towards it...... don't stop putting efforts, keep the chase till you realize that you have gotten your answer!
I have thought about it.......I had an aspiration to be an accounting student although people said I won't be able to go to school and each time I remember that I said to myself “ I have a challenge to conquer ” that's called motivation.
The struggles came, challenges here and there but I fought through you can read about it {coming soon}
These were my aspirations and how I fulfilled them. {dropping soon}
What could be dragging you backward....... every human has to face challenges in every situation in their respective lives one way or the other, ranging from the lighter condition to a harder condition still, yet we do our daily activities and move on with life..... that's how strong we are!!
When you think that yours is more worst you would hear of those that have threaded on fire just to be where they are today! So why not be grateful for where you are today and put effort to leave there!
You don't have to behear the motivational speakers all the time don't be so engrossed in what they have to say, now take heed before you misunderstand me, pick solid points. You are your motivational speaker, you are your strength, speak life to yourself, speak existence where nothing existed, challenge yourself, don't lose yourself in a stupefying manner, brace yourself!
I aspire to be a wonderful mom to my beautiful kids and an excellent wife to my hubby.
Aspirations keep you moving all the time, you go to work every day why because I need to make a good wife. I do the laundry and go to the store to get groceries why because I want to be a good mom. I make meals for my kids why because I chose to be a mom.
It continues every day and you have to be prepared for the stress there's no GAIN without PAIN.
WE HAVE DIFFERENT TYPES OF ASPIRATIONS:
★ Political Aspirations
★ Social Aspirations
★ Unmet Aspirations
Political Aspirations deals with the affairs of the state or country engaging to be voted for in an election to be in an office.
I.E: He has political aspirations.... probably he wants to be a politician or a senator.
I.E: I have always wished to be a president..... without working towards this your aspiration won't be successful.
Social Aspirations deals with so many affairs of the universe, that's why it is social because it's a state of being an extrovert and making so many connections with different people.
I.E: Anna, do you know that Jane wishes to be a nurse?...... now that's another aspiration, she wouldn't be if she doesn't take her studies seriously.
I.E: Kelly, I want to be an inventor.......Woah this is awesome, he just said that but didn't put any effort to be one or learn to try new things and now he is a cobbler, probably he shifted his aspiration to another choice.
Unmet Aspirations deals with the aspiration that was weakly spoken without taking actions or don't have resources to meet the need of the desire.
I.E: John wanted to be an engineer but he ended up being a taxi driver.........now this is sad to me, this might occur because he doesn't have enough resources to meet the standard this happen in our lives but doesn't give up, this could lead to depression and suicide which is very dangerous.
So I encourage you all reading my article, to be strong and courageous, what's your fear, don't stay in a dark corner, don't be silenced.... what's your ASPIRATIONS in life, what's holding you BACK, there's no time but don't be desperate!
******Thank you all for reading****
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