I did not know I could eat those hahahaha funny video, who knew.
Ever since we arrived here she was, and my boyfriend hates it, because of how pointy and “dangerous” it could be, since it has stung us a couple of times. And I did notice that the soil around it is dryer than in the rest of the garden. I wasn't going to take it down by myself out of fear that the real estate agent was going to get mad, but now that it has fallen because of the flowers, it doesn't hurt that much, I think we’ll be fine without the parts that fell.
I think I talk too much about my failures, as I mentioned, and I don't really want to come across as heavy, but sometimes gardening is hard. More if all your effort and hopes and energy gets torn down by little and very fast activists. I care about ecology, but I think I will try to control them a little bit, or a lot.
Thank you @riverflows for taking the time to read my post and for the support, I honestly appreciate it.