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Children's upbringing can be a whole lot of work to do especially when such parent or guardian lack the act of patience and understanding; and even if they do, their undesirable behaviors on a daily basis can make one crazy.
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Flogging a child at every slightest provocation can sometimes worsen a child's offensive behavior and can harden their hearts to continue in such acts. Inflicting pain and injury on a child and not letting the child know where he faulted can sometimes be a waste of time and energy.
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A child's mistakes should be corrected immediately an unwanted behavior is exhibited. A parent should let a child know why he is being punished, the consequences of such act and the right behavior he/she expects in the future. This process to a very large extent brings an awareness on the supposed "right part" to follow. This is why accumulating punishments to give to a child is a wrong way of correcting because most parents carry over grudges of past sins of a child and punishes them afterwards. When this happens, they child becomes lost on where he/she has erred.
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However, beating, flogging or hitting is not the best solution in modifying a child's behavior but through an act of appreciation and gratitude when a child acts and does his task right, correction with love can go a long way. Don't always focus on their weaknesses; a positive statement like "l am proud of you child" can do miracles. Everyone loves it when they are being appreciated for their efforts, appreciate more.
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Parents should know who their children's friends are, bring them close and influence them to the best you can. Your children's company play a significant role in their character formation.
A child might still be head bent on making you crazy no matter the love and patience you put in to make them understand; but never give up, be consistent, tolerant, firm and have faith. No child should be a cast away; we don't have bad children but undesirable behaviors which can be modified.
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Steemians I would appreciate more suggestions on Children's discipline in the comment box, Someone might really need it. Thanks.
