WEEK 218: My experience with good and bad sex

Good or bad sex is a difficult thing to judge, and over the years what I thought was good sex was really shit.

Several decades ago (Bad sex)

Do you remember when you were only 18-20 years old and you met a girl at the disco and at a party and after a few drinks you managed to get her into the back seat of the car?

I swear that when it happened, which didn't happen much, I was under the impression that it was good sex, but I really don't think it was what you can call good sex.

I remember an experience in the summer months, when after a party with his night orchestra I managed to conquer (I still don't know how) a beautiful girl.

At that time, alcohol ran through my veins at those parties and on that occasion it had been a friend of mine who had driven the car to the party.

So in order to have sex, my conquest and I went to a beach near the party and there on the sand without a towel we tried to have sex.

I say we tried, because the drunkenness I was carrying was considerable and instead of hitting her vagina on several occasions I deviated and it was not at all pleasant to penetrate the sand.

And even less for her, that my penis was covered in sand as it entered her vagina.

This is not just bad sex, I would call it Lousy Sex.

In recent years (Good sex)

I have discovered good sex in recent years. With more stable partners and in more relaxed and comfortable environments to have sex.

Above all, I define good sex as when both people enjoy each other and there is that special glow in the eyes between the couple, when one reaches that climax in which one feels that one touches the sky to see that your partner is also at the same point of pleasure as yourself.

Above all, one knows that one is having good sex when I look at my partner's face and see his eyes almost blank, his breathing gasping with pleasure and his hands running down my back with his nails wanting to scratch me for not being able to rationally control what he is doing.

Knowing that I'm getting that level of excitement in my partner, it feeds me back, it excites me and encourages me to keep going over every inch of his skin, causing me equal parts excitement and feeding my ego for giving good sex.

Undoubtedly, for me good sex is to achieve a perfect synchronization of two bodies and above all of our minds.

Greetings and have great sex...