Social media vs real life.
Fake life on social media
Talking about being pressured. Ahh although haven't really experienced this, but my bestie is not an exemption.
The only thing that happened to me was the social media fake lifestyle.
Like imagine me making a post with a caption " hello guys my Ghanian husband just bought me a private jet and everyone on my contact list were like... Wow.. you're so lucky.. ok let's be sincere, I never really wanted to make it look real, I didn't know some persons will take it serious. But when the comments started coming in, I didn't know when I danced to it. meanwhile I was in my house looking for what to eat.
Which husband, did I even have a boyfriend 馃槀.
Talking about the aspects of social media pressure. I remembered once my bestie just woke up saying she wants to be like one particular Influencer like that...like how ... She'll literally wants to buy and wear whatever the person is wearing.
And when she can't get it, you see my girl getting angry at every little thing.
It was a case on its own..like how do you want to be like someone.
You just want to imitate everything. She followed this person on every social Media handle.
I tried advising her that don't mind the way this people come out to talk post things and you feel it's all of that. They are some background things they do that you're not aware. So discover yourself before you kill yourself.
She will often feel depressed when her parents don't get her what she wants so she can join the trend.
My bestie became a public figure overnight. She post everything around her online. She no longer had a life of her own but the social media.
There was once she said she wants to do BBl ...like baby girl howfa Na..the one you have is it not enough?....馃槀
Long story short, my girl phone lost, everything die. They parents refuse to get her a new phone immediately and that's how she calmed down.
