One of the most interesting things I have read here in a very, very, long time. Thanks for telling us your story! I have to say ... I agree with you in all things that you mentioned ... I am very reluctant to shave my own legs, for example, just like you. Too often, far too often, we judge one another based on our looks instead of our souls, our mistakes instead of our successes, and so on. From one woman to another, keep it up, girl!