There is a difference between drama and discussion. That is the line that I am drawing.

True, that is a good point. I still believe they are valuable though, it just depends on how they unfold, which is always a risk. Healthy discussion and sharing points of view without any hostility is always preferred I guess.

I've learned a lot from your post and the reply to my comment bud. It always a matter of time. That post you made about the tree springs to mind. We wait and wait and then see it grow. Although, even trees sometimes need a bit of guidance so they don't end up with such crooked branches (fortunately in the irl we have professional tree surgeons).