[#41722] Sooooo..... I had been dating my Exboyfriend less t...

[#41722] Sooooo..... I had been dating my Exboyfriend less than a year, we lived in separate dwellings. He was and is still a really great guy. Super nice, almost too nice. He complimented me daily. Both my children adore him greatly and vice versa . What's the problem?? A liitle over a month ago, during an intimate moment just after the New Year, without my consent or knowledge, my Ex-partner added a Dick Sleeve to the mix, which came off inside me. It wasn't until a few days later when I had gotten my period that I realized what had happened. I had messaged him and asked him about it and he claims that he doesn't know what I am talking about and that he hasn't used anything on me in quite some time which implies that I must have cheated on him. I was courteous enough to send him a photo of the incriminating evidence against him and cleared my good name from any Wrong Doing. Once he saw the photo he was all of a sudden "So Sorry" and remembered using the Dick Sleeve.I told him I would do my best to not let this incident bother me, but it is apparent that it had. We had not been intimate since that evening, almost a month and a half ago. It felt grimy and gross when he came looking for affection afterwards, even something as simple as a kiss was off putting. I know he feels bad. I know he is sorry. But I can't get passed the fact that he didn't notice the Dick Sleeve piece he added that evening wasn't there once he was done. It stayed inside me for 4 days, then I thankfully got my period and found it later in the evening of the 4th day. What if I didn't get my period for another week?!?!Unfortunately I could not get passed this. So as bad as it was for him.... I broke up with him the weekend before Valentine's Day regardless. I feel it is better to break up with at that time versus after Valentine's Day. He might perceive a break up afterwards as being selfish. However, I believe I am not selfish and rather quite selfless.There's a phrase. "Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me."All I asked for was complete honesty from him in every aspect. He was not truthful or honest, despite my openness and willingness to try new things in the bedroom, consent is still required even between two individuals in a committed relationship, had I known about the Dick Sleeve beforehand I would have known to keep and eye out for it, if it didn't come out like it hadn't. My trust has been breached and my heart broken from the accusations. I could not forgive this and will never forget this. I cannot be with someone who makes me feel disgusted just being in their presence.Goodbye to the one who could have been so much more.

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