No, there is more YOU than just you. And so, if you are applying blame, or outrage, there is plenty of other-you to yell at.

However, blame doesn't usually help. Usually the problem inside you is that you are feeling singled out, attacked, hurt. And why would you do that to yourself?

The solution is usually finding out the real, the root cause of what your life/ life lessons are. Then you can more easily comprehend what is happening.