Ummm, look up "local script". I think that is the words.

I do not remember the words, nor which language, but i will set it in America.

The town received $10,000
Instead of dolling it out, he put it in a bank, and created $10,000 of local script.
You could turn these script in and get 90¢, and they also expired over time.

So, the money started flowing quite quickly in this town. 100% employment. All kinds of tasks got done. It was soooo successful, that the central bank got a law made that you can't do that.

The debt based system is one that, as you said, pushes the costs onto future generations.
And, at some point, it will seize up and implode. Poof into existence, foop out of existence. Leaving the little people with nothing.

It is hard to imagine houses being built, when no one had enough money to build a house, without loans. So, we may think the loan was good.

But, the Amish build a house by getting together and building one.

It seems to be what women want. Unbridled, and without enforced monogamy, the women who don't wed right out of highschool, all want the top man. And they want all the attention. So, they have chosen to be polygynous. They cannot conceive of dating/marrying any of the ugly men (lower 80%) and so, do not.

We have made life easy enough, that the do not.
So, all of the forces that would keep a woman married or gone, or flipped around so she is encouraged to leave.

So, the only way to get a good, solid, loving relationship is to truly heal yourself. All your attachment styles, everything. And then you work on being (law of attraction) that person who is in a loving relationship. It does work, but it is a hard road. Especially if you think you are doing ok. That you have walked away from the childhood pain/trauma.

With me, there was trauma that i just that was normal growing up.

Another way may be to hire a surrogate that you like, you pay for the child, and then you say you can come visit your child and stay here, as long as you are clean and sober.