Ummm, heaven is a rest stop in between lives.
Hell is a place where you burn the sins (soul pains) out of you.

You stay in each as long as you think is necessary.
If you do less sins, you don't have to go to hell as long.

Men and women are complements of each other.
Good sex (making love to a woman you love) is very healing and transformative.
It can even be used in attaining enlightenment.

And we just use it to make money to buy more McDs and handbags.

The real benefits of relations start at about the pinnacle of human morality.
(Find HoeMath on UTubes, and see his levels. You really need to be above level 4, both of you, and better at level 7.)
And then, the relationship can be extremely good and fulfilling, in many aspects of life.

F'inism has told women they can go it alone. They can't. What a woman needs, to be a woman, is a man who puts a shell of (safety, support, nourishment) around her. And F'inism tells women this is controlling, so they push away the very thing they need.

Lets say i got many men, in their garages to make refrigerators.
And we made MANly refrigerators. Forget all those froo-froo drawers, men needs are different.
So, a stainless steel box, with wire racks, and wire bins. Maybe beer holding racks, and such.

So, we men, each build a part of the refrigerator. And we swap the parts to make us all a fridge.
And now, we are outside the system, making fridges that women do not want, and big manufacturers wouldn't touch.

And, women's side of things may just become nothing as few can afford one. Or they could get a man fridge, if she can talk a guy into getting her one.

Basically, with each step i have planned, the women get left more and more alone.