I understand where you are coming from on the "Chad" view.

However, there is the other end.
People who get the look of disgust if they approach a woman.
These men have NEVER been approached by a woman.
From there point of view, dating a woman would be hitting a home run. Just dating.

I know that Chads do not make it with every woman, but they usually have no problem getting a roster of "girlfriends".

I also do not feel that there are many decent looking, marriage minded women.
They all want to be a bride, but not a wife.
It isn't until 30 that she starts thinking she might have to settle.
At that point, it is way too late, and they do not even know that.

Most do not understand what monogamy is. They do not understand the dynamics of getting a man hooked over time. Hell, single mother's think they are still marriage material.

Aaron Clarey wrote a book tracking the number on marriageable women. He came up with less than 3%