Ummm, that part after the N, and before the O, errr, maybe the whole thing. Like, why does it exist at all?

Much of our problem stems from some people not understanding NO, while also having no compunction about lying. They have an agenda, and they will do anything to get it.

All they have to do is fuss enough for you to give in.
"It is for the children, think of the children"
"If it saves one child"
"How many children have to die before you give up your guns?" (what these evil people are saying is how many more children do they have to kill)

These evil people will never give up. Their need for control is absolute.

And then you have the Karens of the world, who feel they must control other people to feel safe/secure. You can usually get these to stop with a strong NO.