Getting married is a very expensive mistake.
Go drop 20k+ in Vegas on one spin of the wheel. Your odds are much better.

Men get no benefits from marriage (legally speaking) and all the responsibilities.
Getting married means you can now go to jail without trial, on her word.

This is what happens when sociopaths are at the top. They make the whole system into a feeding frenzy without any trust. Might is right is all of the law under this regime.