I really dislike the whole "preferred pronoun" thing.
I already have a hard enough time talking to people.

I really wish someone would come up with a gender neutral set of pronouns that sounded correct and stuck. Then i would use them and nothing else.

Further, the "preferred pronoun" is usually about a sexual aberration. And i really do not care about your sex life, unless i am actually interested in you and being a part of your sex life. Soooo, like something to be brought up on the first or second date?