I really do not know what it means to be a man anymore.

And the big thing missing is men's communities.
Men who supported, and were supported by the community they built.
That support structure also gave the meaning to the life.

Where wimminz have gone wrong is that they have missed the real, in the pursuit of glam.
Back in the 80s we had the craze of having good sounding job titles, like Sanitation Engineer.
Men quickly saw through that bullshit.
But wimminz have lapped it up.
The wimminz want jobs at the non-profits. (where did the donation and charity go?)
Its all about prestige.
It is all as real as their f-c-book wall.

And relationships seem to have fallen into the same category.
Your are an instagram accessory. In the same category, and just as important as the designer handbag.