Geo-maxing is a real thing.

And one of the most important things for a long term healthy relationship is that SHE thinks she got a catch. With sky high expectations, i can be sporting many 6s, but i am still an introverted geek / ass burgers. And so, it will just be luck that i find someone that is decent looking and wants me, and wants the family life.

So, as many RP say, build yourself better for yourself.
Don't live your life for da gyrls.

... but i remember the 80s, and actually getting girls phone numbers and first dates, and first kisses...