You are not wrong, but you are not correct.

It is evident that you are falling over your words.
So, you are just trying to comprehend how to go about putting together your desperate pieces.

One of the first things to do is ARM EVERYONE!
I know this sounds counter intuitive to those anti-gun people.
However, one fact is important. The good guys outnumber the bad guys. Usually by 10 to 1.
So, you are arming 10 good guys.

People need to be able to defend themselves.
Until we get to a point where no one uses guns anymore...

... because, we have all learned to negotiate for our needs.

Two pieces here, we need to stop lying in negotiations
and we need to state clearly what we need.

Take "pro-choice"... what are they really saying?
Not that they stand for choice, if such where the case, then abortion would be "safe, legal & rare".
No, pro-choice is about a women's ability to lock down the best man she can.
Most abortions happen because she "accidentally" got preggers with the bad-boys kid, and he wouldn't put a ring on it.

Thus, to work out this issue, we need to correctly define the words
(no more pro-life vs baby killers (dehumanizing the opposition, as you said))
And we need to correctly define the desires. Not the good sounding propaganda.

And, most importantly
We need to lock up all the banksters.

We have a group of people that have designed a system that enforces the lack of materials.
Bankruptcy is not a problem of someone being too lazy, it is actually a feature of the system.

There is never enough money to pay for all the loans, so SOMEONE WILL be defaulting on their loans.

And so, the banking system keeps everyone in lack, perpetually, forever.
That should not be allowed to exist on this planet.

Further, we do not fight the banksters (as in war)
We ignore the banksters by developing and using our own currencies.
Viva decentralized cryptos.