Most women, especially F'inist want it all, and do not use words honestly.
They are an "old fashioned girl" when it comes to who pays for the date.
They are a "modern, independent woman" when it comes to doing any of the house keeping.
They are "oppressed F'inists" when it comes to any law that could favor women over men.

What we, as men, should do is find the cheapest easiest way to maintain the lives of the cat ladies we are forced to pay for with our taxes. And then walk away.