Well, this has already/will be solved.

And wimminz will hate it!

Children are our future.
Not my future, not your future, OUR future.

Children are the future of our group. ( i will not use family, or society, or govern-cement, because those are all about to be redefined or obliterated).

So, there is only one solution to
My body, my choice

Our future, our obligation, our children.

The children will belong to the group that allowed the female to get pregnant and carry a baby to term.

If you don't like it, you can go and have a baby on your own somewhere out in the wilderness, ALONE!

The group will be responsible in making a place for the new human to grow within.
The group will be responsible for the food that the new human will need.
The group will be responsible for educating the new human in the ways of the group.

And the mother will have no right, or ownership over the new human.
If she wants to leave the group, she may leave, because that is always allowed.
However, the child belongs to the group.

When i explain this to wimminz they go berserk.
I guess they want their cake and eat it too.... or maybe they have had it both ways for so long they just consider it normal. Like having the privilege to vote.