There is one thing between cigarette tobacco and pipe tobacco.

I am allergic to cigarette smoke. Like, shoving an ice pick up my nose... actually a bit worse, because it continues to hurt and cause breathing problems.

I like pipe tobacco smoke. I find it a pleasant aroma. I have no reaction to it at all.

Does pipe tobacco and rolling tobacco come from the same tin?

Wonder if... their used to be machines for rolling cigarettes. Sold in magazine adverts.
Why doesn't every smoke shop have one, and roll their own packs to be sold?
Could make a huge markup.

About the question in the title.

No, it is not fair for your partner to be mad at you, but it is the way of women.

She has a dream of you cheating, and that is ground for her to be upset.

Now, whether you are killing them...
tough choice, because we lack so much knowledge about what our body does with stuff.

The cigarettes are most addictive for their carbon monoxide, which calms the person. And they need the calming because the world is so hectic. (blame media and the CIA)

So, which is better?
No lung cancer, but a shortened life due to stress?
Lung cancer, but a longer life due to mitigating stress?