I have really been having trouble judging by what people do and not what they say.

And i am even more behind the 8 ball because i am extremely truthful, and expect others to be at least somewhat truthful.

So, what do you do when the person you are working for says they want you to refinish these cabinets, but blocks you at every turn, does things to make the work MUCH harder, and won't make choices like, what color?

It is very hard to accept "they don't want the cabinets refinished"
but... i actually believe they want the cabinets refinished but they want to see me fail more than the want the cabinets refinished.

It does not compute to my brain.