I understand your point of view.
I can also understand their point of view.

This is a big one, because it comes up in so many areas:

forever alone is a defeatist mindset

How many times do you fail before saying, "i give up"?
This is a real question.

There actually seems to be many cut offs in life.
"You must be this tall to ride this ride"

So, if you are 5'-6" and your goal is to play NBA basketball, you have to be really athletic and work VERY hard. For the most part, you should just give up... but there is that million in one chance...

There are many other factors that just say, you're out.
And everyone sees them (especially women) but no one talks about them.

Lastly, FAs do not try to go after the best looking women. Many have tried
ANY woman.